We've all been there: it's eleven at night and you're lying in bed, but falling asleep is out of the question. While you try to close your eyes, your dick has other ideas. A spontaneous gay hookup to let off some steam would be just the thing again, but who do you text? You can't be bothered with your old flings, and it's time for a gay hookup with a bit of variety again. Luckily, you and your dick have a few alternatives:

Gay Hookups Through Dating Sites and Gay Apps

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Gay dating apps and gay dating sites are the obvious first stop when you're in the mood for new contacts for a gay hookup. Even though many gay men on gay apps say in their profile texts that they're mainly looking for relationships and dates, most of them are up for a spontaneous gay hookup after a little groundwork.

Beyond that, there are still gay dating sites on the internet aimed at men looking for hookups and affairs. The advantages of online options are right there at your fingertips.

Finding Gay Hookups Through Apps and Dating Sites Is Quick and Easy

Chats and meetups are possible at any time of day and from anywhere Gay apps and dating sites show you men from your immediate area Photos can be exchanged in the chat before you decide on a gay hookup with a new acquaintance Most gay apps and dating sites offer free basic memberships and chats

Gay Hookups at Cruising Spots

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If you live in a larger city with a big gay community, you can also get to hot sex in a much more direct way and let off steam with other guys without any fuss. Through gay blogs, gay personals and gay city magazines, you can always keep up with which cruising spots in your city are trendy and busy. Among other places, gay men often meet at the following places for anonymous, spontaneous sex:

Gay hookups in public places like parks or restrooms undoubtedly take a bit more courage. If you go for it, though, you can meet guys without detours or a lot of talk who, just like you, are only after a bit of fun. The big downside of cruising, however, is that many cruising spots are only really busy at certain times, and you don't always run into someone you like. Cruising quickly becomes a game of chance, which can of course be annoying. And if nothing else works out: there's always the classic, the bar…